International Women's Day

Being a women isn't better than being a man.

Being a women isn't less than being a man.

We offer unique gifts to the world, but they have equivalent value.

Together we create the human race.

United, men and women create the world we live in.

I believe we can fly.

South Korea 2011


Lahore Pakistan 2011

Mike Huckabee will never have my vote...

Another Republican I will not vote for.
Mike Huckabee knows the truth, but he wants to be elected so badly he'll manipulate (ignore) facts to ingratiate himself with a particular segment of the voting population.  His cynicism is toxic.
He values political power more than his own integrity.
It's the pathetic and transparent act of a small man.
Article in  Daily Beast by Mark McKinnon:  "Wake Up Huck:  Obama didn't grow up in Kenya"

I just don't understand

From Huffington Post

House Speaker John Boehner (R-Ohio) announced on Friday that he was spearheading a process that will, ultimately, witness the House of Representatives taking over the legal responsibilities of arguing for the constitutionality of the Defense of Marriage Act.
The announcement comes less than two weeks after the Obama administration's Department of Justice removed itself from the case, declaring that it had determined the law -- which dictates that the federal government can only recognize a state-sanctioned marriage between a man and a woman -- to be unconstitutional.

I can't understand why this man and those who agree with him are so afraid.  What harm will come to them if gay and lesbian couples are allowed to marry?  What harm?  His actions actively HURT and DISCRIMINATE AGAINST other human beings, while other people's marriage affects him NOT A WHIT.  I just don't understand.  Why is he not outlawing divorce?  Heterosexuals getting a divorce hurts him just the same as gays and lesbians getting married - if that's his argument.  There are plenty more heterosexuals getting a divorce than gays and lesbians getting married; the negative impact on his view of the sanctity of marriage is more harmed by heterosexual divorce. 
It really just seems like a hateful attitude to have.  It's sad and disappointing.
With all the troubles we're having in this country he would rather spend time hurting people.  Shameful.

First Amendment

Today the Supreme Court ruled that members of a certain Kansas church can legally say repugnant and horrible things at the funerals of United States soldiers when they follow state and municipal rules - even if it causes emotional distress for the families of the soldier.
(If you were to look up information about the church, it would make your blood boil and you'd feel sad and sickened that people like this have so much time on their hands.  In my belief system they are not furthering any kind of spiritual, human, political,or religious cause by their unloving behavior.)

Even still, I agree with Steven Shapiro from the ACLU:

The court's decision today, properly and respectfully acknowledged the Snyder family's grief.  But, it also, correctly held that the response to that grief cannot include abandoning core first amendment principles that protect even the most unpopular speech. 

I'm coming down with Royal Fever

Thirty years ago I was afflicted as well.  I can't even tell you why.  I think a monarchy is elitist, I'm not a fashionista, and, for me, weddings are kinda goofy.
And yet, I'm under the spell.
Prince William seems to be a charming young man despite the unusual pressures he's grown up with.
Kate appears to be a happy and courageous young woman who looks good in all the clothes.
Together, they look like they're friends uniting.
That's cool.
So, from afar, and with no personal connection, I'm kinda hooked.
Luckily, Buckingham Palace just put up a website so I can keep up to date on all the goings on until April 29th!  YAY!

Eric Clapton Concert

And I was there...

I missed most of Los Lobos except the last medley of La Bamba and Doctor Doctor, which was peppy.
Sometime around 8:45 or 9:00, Eric Clapton came onstage and began a concert that was all about the music; there was no banter - at all.
Because of the big screens giving us plenty of close-ups of the guitar riffs, it was easy to appreciate the virtuosity and talent of Eric Clapton.  Not to mention the two guys on keyboard Chris Stainton and Tim Carmon, both of whom were givien multiple solos.
I found myself really getting into the flow of the song during the extended solos.
Since I'm not familiar with Eric Clapton's songs, I'm not entirely sure which songs I especially appreciated, but I think it was Key to the Highway, Hoochie Coochie Man, Old Love, River Runs Deep, Rockin Chair, and Before You Accuse Me.
Here is a link to the setlist.
I'm glad I was there with LJB and JYRG, although I drove myself because they went early and LJB is staying over at JYRG's for a couple nights.  There was some talk in the news about snow coming through again in the evening.  I forced myself not to worry about it during the concert.  I did okay with that.  And it turns out the roads were dry...yay!
I left before the encore song Crossroads because I was parked in a spot I figured would take me awhile to get out of if I waited for all the rest of the crowd to stream out.  I made a good choice - they were streaming out as I exited the parking garage and with one quick little jaunt through a neighborhood I managed to avoid much of a traffic jam.
(Although, sometimes avoiding traffic and missing the opening act isn't the most important thing; spending time with friends makes an experience more memorable.  It may have been convenient and less of a hassle the way I did it, but I missed out on bonding moments...plus, I gave into my fear of loss of control.  Sigh.)

How will I live this day?

I'll be writing about Oprah as her final season winds down, but for today I want to share what I learned in a scene shot for her Behind The Scenes show on OWN.  Here is a link to the video.  Every morning, even if its only for a moment, Oprah stops in her meditation room...

Usually before the sun comes up, I offer myself to somthing greater than myself.  If it's for one minute, or ten minutes, or twenty seconds, I at least stop in that space in my house every morning.  I have a little meditation space where I just go.  I have beautiful spiritual readings there, I light my three candles there, daily word, or something.  And I express to this greater energy field than I that I don't want to be alone as I move out into the world.

I appreciate her intention to offer herself to something greater than herself, and not wanting to be alone in the world. 
For Christians, the image might be that they're walking the steps of Jesus today.  How would Jesus want me to live this day?

For me, I want to be so free and open that the energy of the universe flows through me as I walk through my day.  In my visioning, the energy of love is in the universe and it flows around and it comes down into me through the top of my head and then comes out of me through my eyes and mouth and hands and feet and every action I take in my physical world.  That's where I create and engage and communicate - that is where the energy of love in the universe takes form, through me.
Wow - I think that will be my meditation for this morning...I like that!

You may think I have no sense of humor, I should lighten up, and I'm a killjoy...

Cover of Joe Nichols album "III"

I went out with workmates on Friday night to a country western bar where the music was really loud and nobody gave me grief for trying to line dance with little interest in learning the steps.
Fine and dandy.

Then I heard the song "Tequila Makes Her Clothes Fall Off" and my prudish sensibilities were offended.

I'm lousy at discerning lyrics so I'm glad to say the true lyrics are much less horrifying than I imagined (drunken date rape).
Though no less problematic.
What do you suppose happens after her clothes fall off?

The song is intended to be humorous because it's sung from the point of view of the boyfriend who recognizes there will be more clothes to buy since his girlfriend loses them all when she's drinking Tequila.

However, drinking to excess so a person is doing something they wouldn't normally do is not funny or humorous, a phase all people go through, or anything to be proud of.
It shouldn't be taken lightly because when people drink alcohol to excess...

• they can be more easily manipulated and manipulative,
• men take advantage of women in ways they wouldn't dare to otherwise,
• mental illness is misdiagnosed,
• they could get alcohol poisoning,
• they might drive a car, risking their own lives and the lives of innocent people around them,
• fights are more likely to break out,
• relationships/families can be destroyed.

This morning, I saw an article in the NYU newspaper about how to get fake id so underage university students (and high school students I guess) can drink alcohol.
I'm sad that underage drinking (and binge drinking) is so acceptable in the mainstream there's no need to hide it.

Alcohol won't go away, it's legal, and it doesn't always ruin a person's life.
I love a lot of people who drink alcohol and may have been drunk to excess.
But I wish we could at least not act like underage drinking or being wasted at any age is something that should be celebrated, hollered and whoo-hoo'd about, or acceptable.
I wish some people didn't think they need alcohol to have a good time.

That's my opinion.

Update I: I just watched the video of the song (linked above) and I hate it even more.
Update II:  This is what REALLY happens when Tequila makes her clothes come off...not a pool party with a leering guitar player.  Ugh - I'm really hating this song right now.

Election 2012

Tim Pawlenty is OFF the presidential candidates list for me...

(this picture is from a 2010 conference appearance)

At CPAC (Conservative Political Action Conference) today, Tim Pawlenty said:

"We appease and accommodate Iran, Russia, adversaries in the Middle East, including Hamas, and the Muslim Brotherhood. Mr. President, with bullies, MIGHT makes RIGHT."

Uh-huh.
That's what bullies say...might makes right.
His statement was followed by enthusiastic applause from the CPAC crowd who don't want to be taxed to death but apparently don't mind using taxes to make war and cause the death of other people.

When the force of your argument can only be made with the force of your fist...you have no argument.
(I just made that up!)

Egyptian Protestors

Mohamed ElBaradei, before President Mubarak's speech today

Mohamed ElBaradei, after President Mubarak's speech

I copied this from The Rachel Maddow Show blog.

For the record, I say "Power to the Protestors". Mubarek will not resign. He wants the protestors to go home because the Egyptian economy can't handle this unrest for very long. The argument bothers me to no end. If the Egyptian economy can't handle the unrest, and it matters to Mubarek, then he will resign. He shouldn't pretend he cares about the Egyptian economy; he's trying to define the story so it seems the protestors are the disruptors. It's sad that all over the world - in the USA, Egypt, Germany, Argentina, and everywhere humans are in charge - many of us can be convinced by the prospect of a disturbance to what we've gotten used to - even when what we've gotten used to isn't in our best interest.

While I'm hoping the protests will continue until Mubarek leaves, I support the United States staying out of this as much as possible. I'll change my mind if an overwhelming military force starts killing protestors. It seems unlikely at this point, but it also seemed unlikely that Mubarek would reassert his position in a speech today.

UPDATE 2/11/2011 - And there he goes...Mubarek is no longer the President of Egypt and a peaceful regime change has taken place in the Middle East. A model for the future? Let's hope so!

Oh! What a relief it is!

Barack Obama presented the State of the Union tonight to begin his 3rd year as President of the United States.  As a response to the country's mood following the tragic shootings in Tuscon and the extreme partisanship of the previous two years, the Democratic and Republican members of the House and Senate sat among each other.
Last year's speech was dominated by partisan cheerleading and I was bothered by it.
I appreciate this year's tone (Please do it again.)  I think it's much harder to whoop and holler when you're not part of a huge gang sitting together.
Once again, Barack Obama's speech hit the same theme this year as last year and the year before and I really wish we'd see some financial investment in education, research and development, and infrastructure.  It seems like a no-brainer.
Paul Ryan (R-WI) gave the Republican response, and although he hit many of the typical fear-based Republican talking points and he allowed his facial expression to appear smug a couple times, he spoke well and was easy to understand.  His most potent point was mentioning the austerity measures recently instituted in several European countries.  If you're inclined to agree and are swayed by fear, he was warning us away from going down that road.
Bottom Line - Barack Obama is the best president ever!  We have a long way to go.  I'm interested to see how the Republicans act under the leadership of John Boehner.
Onward America!

Live Life's Questions

Sometimes living the questions is better than finding the answer.

In Life as well as on Lost.

(yes, it took me this long to come up with my feelings about the Lost finale)

Jan's Story

CBS News Sunday Morning repeated a piece this morning about early onset Alzheimers Disease.  Barry Petersen presents an affecting story about people stricken with early onset Alzheimers.
I was touched by his love and the courage he showed by sharing his story.  He's also written a book about his experience, and has a website.
We don't know what will come to us on any given day; the only thing we can count on is that our true spirit will shine through every circumstance we encounter.  I hope to cultivate a loving spirit.

In honor of...

"The time is always right, to do what is right."

"In the end we will not remember the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."

IT JUST LOOKS LIKE MAGIC!

Thank you 2010.

Hello 2011.

This is the year of tasks and getting things done...make it look like magic!

I wish Peace, Health, Love, and Happiness to all of you, to all of us. 

A couple thoughts...

Retired Navy Cmdr. Zoe Dunning is surrounded by other repeal supporters in San Francisco as the decisive vote is announced. (Paul Chinn/san Francisco Chronicle Via Associated Press)

Don't Ask Don't Tell is Repealed. Congratulations!

Gay rights are a no brainer to me and I don't understand why it hurts anyone what gay people do. I fully support the right of gay partners to marry and adopt children. (Though, I think marriage has become confused between the secular and religious and should be reviewed, that's a different discussion.)

I remember when DADT started in the Clinton administration. It seemed like an intermediate step at the time because Clinton campaigned on the promise that gays would be allowed in the military. He couldn't get it through so they settled on this compromise solution.

The outright BAN on homosexuality in the military was gone, but gays were still in the military closet. Although it took years to get this DADT repeal, the years may have made it easier to repeal at this time because we have years of evidence that banning gays in the military was nonsensical - as many service people testified, their branch of the service honors integrity and honesty, and yet they were essentially ordered to be dishonest and have no integrity. Makes no sense. Glad DADT has been lifted.

John McCain is still against it. He's not a smart man. I'm glad he's not our president. He wanted a study to find out what the service people thought since they're the ones who would be affected. (As a former military man you'd think he'd ascribe to the idea that a soldier does what the military tells him - no matter what.) Once the study/questionnaire was complete and it was clear that most in the military thought it was okay he decided the questions were wrong. Whatever.

Voted most annoying word? Whatever

WikiLeaks - I'm coming down on the side of leaks - unless it involves details of troop movements or the position of defense assets or the names of spies or stuff like that. Diplomatic memo's? Come on - be more professional in your diplomatic communication and more above board in your positions and none of this would be a problem, would it? It's what we all have to learn growing up and getting into the work world. One job skill that doesn't get enough mention is being able to communicate the truth in a factual, non judgmental or emotional way.

I think it's conveniently coincidental that Julian Assange has rape charges filed against him in Sweden. It's all quite suspicious. And I believe my government is involved in a way I wouldn't approve of. I think my beloved president knows what they're doing and I'm sad he's been put in this position, but I wish he wouldn't act like it's somebody else's fault.

This is like a spy movie or spy story playing out in real life. Except in a story I'd know what all sides think say and do, and the story moves along more quickly.

Anyway - except for if people's lives are in danger, I think this is embarrassing for the United States, but WikiLeaks did nothing wrong.

I feel bad for the kid who leaked the stuff though. That's pretty rough. I'm glad PFC Bradley Manning did it, but he violated the terms of his employment and he'll have to suffer the consequences. That's the problem with being a whistleblower; you must have a lot of courage and be willing to suffer the consequences. I haven't done research on it, but I think he didn't have a noble reason for leaking the documents. I got the impression it was because he could, and he felt a bit neglected. That's the kind of thing the CIA might say about somebody in this kind of situation though - they try to make it the fault of some misguided loner. Sad.

I still don't get Facebook

It seems like a middleman.  Companies and people with their own websites create another 'website' and encourage people to go there and have discussions, while at the same time they continue their own websites where they also encourage discussions.
Seems like an extra layer.
I'm not a mobile user so maybe that makes a difference. 
Honestly, I like the idea of eavesdropping on people's lives via their status updates without giving anything back.  But, by the same token, that means it doesn't create any connection - it's just idle curiosity.
Twitter makes more sense to me, but I can't follow those conversations so I don't know what's going on there either.
I'd say mobile computing technology - rather than Facebook's Mark Zuckerberg (I didn't see the movie this year) - should be the Time 'Person of the Year' or Julian Assange.  I thought I'd heard Time was going to make Julian Assange the 'Person of the Year' until the rape charges in Sweden happened. 

Selling America to the World

We seek to export the American way of life to the world - consumerism, independence, nonviolent change of power.
Yet, if the whole world lived like Americans, would the planet be able to provide the required resources?

If everyone lived like average Americans I wonder if our civilization would collapse? How would the earth provide all the resources necessary to sustain that kind of life?
As it is, the Earth is running out of many of the resources we use, and that's with most of the world not yet living to our standards of comfort.

Our global economic plan, though, is to use the craft of advertising and emotional manipulation to create an interest in our way of life in the rest of the world and then provide it to them.
We think that's good for us because it means we've opened up global markets and are making money.

It doesn't make sense to me. We may have made money initially, but eventually we can't sustain that life and we'll have to figure out a new way to live.

In America we've used nuclear power and fuel engines in our cars for years. But, when the Chinese and Indians buy into the dream and use those same technologies, we tell them to stop because we can't ALL live with those luxuries or the planet will suffer.

It just doesn't make sense to me.

We need to create a new American Dream. We can define a way of living that doesn't use up natural resources unnecessarily and yet makes sure everyone has enough.

My American Dream: Parks and wilderness areas, better food distribution, reasonable sized houses, conversation, valuing everyone's contribution to society, art, tolerance, creativity, patience, compassion, and love.

We could export those ideas around the world and live on Planet Earth for a very long time.

I finished another book!

Part two of the Walnut Grove Trifecta (part one is here, part three I haven't read yet).

I like her.  Alison's writing style is easy, casual, friendly, funny, and genuine.  I feel like I met a friend.
I respect her activism (Aids Project Los Angeles and National Association to Protect Children are two groups she supports), and enjoyed her stories about being Nellie Oleson on Little House on the Prairie.  We also learn about the part of Alison's life that is not as innocent and lovely as "Little House" though she tells it very honestly - she seems to have a good perspective on what her life was and has become.  Again, I respect and like her - her book was good company!

It seems I have less to say when I enjoy something.  Everything about Alison and her story made sense and rang true.  I recommend the book.  

The book's website

What a waste...

The Republican Senate leaders today presented a letter to Harry Reid describing how the current Republicans in the Senate will handle themselves in the upcoming sessions prior to a new Senate configuration next year.

You can see the letter on the Republican Senate website here.

This is what I don't understand...

While there are other items that might ultimately be worthy of the Senate's attention, we cannot agree to prioritize any matters above the critical issues of funding the government and preventing a job-killing tax hike.

How do you fund the government at the same time you're preventing tax hikes?

Where is the funding coming from? 
You're decreasing taxes on personal income, but expecting the taxes small businesses pay to increase because the owners of the small business are persons whose taxes were not increased so they were able to increase the size of their business?
Or is the funding coming because the people whose taxes were not increased spend the money in the marketplace and create more revenue for small businesses and corporations?
I don't get it.
Shouldn't politicians at least TRY to make sense?

I thought the government spent most of the last decade taxing nobody and buying everything and we don't have a booming economy that investors can count on.

They're so convinced they're right and won't give anyone an opportunity to try any other idea - even when the votes in the 2008 election made it clear we wanted to try something else - if it's not their idea.

What arrogance and childishness they're demonstrating. 

I would like the government to invest in small businesses. 
I'd like the government to invest in small manufacturing companies so we can start creating things again.
I don't think a service economy is a stable economy.
I also wish we would invest in science and technology that helps us come up with new ways to conserve our natural resources, or new ways to use the resources we have.
I'm all for the space program - let's get back into space.

If the government could invest in these things more jobs would be created and whole new industries born.  That's how to spark the economy.

I think that's what Obama's been trying to do and he's been thwarted at every turn by the pesky little mosquitos who aren't interested in governing but are only interested in staying in power by using the emotionally volatile and easily manipulated public to create trouble.

That's what I think today.

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year....

No words necessary!

Happy Thanksgiving

MSFMG sent an e-card this morning that made me want to include "Simple Gifts" on my blog today.
It reminds me to be thankful for the simplicity of the most valuable gifts life has to offer;  love, peace, and health.

'Tis the gift to be simple, 'tis the gift to be free,

'Tis the gift to come down where we ought to be,

And when we find ourselves in the place just right,

'Twill be in the valley of love and delight.

When true simplicity is gain'd,

To bow and to bend we shan't be asham'd,

To turn, turn will be our delight,

Till by turning, turning we come round right.

Community Love

Christmas episode is on Dec 8 at 8pm on NBC.

Winter traffic snarls...

Seattle Area Alerts

11/22/2010 10:55 PM

Blocking Incidents

• On I-5 northbound at Mercer Street there is a disabled vehicle blocking the 3 left lanes.
• Update 10:07 PM : On I-5 southbound just south of SR 161 there is a collision blocking the HOV lane. Fire Assistance has arrived on the scene.
• On I-405 northbound just north of SR 522 there is an incident blocking the HOV lane.
• On I-5 northbound at South Center there is a disabled vehicle blocking the HOV lane.
• Update 9:54 PM : On I-405 southbound just north of Coal Crk Pkwy there is a disabled vehicle blocking the right lane. The State Patrol has arrived on the scene.
• On I-5 southbound at Lake City Way there is a collision blocking the 2 right lanes.
• Update 10:53 PM : On SR 520 eastbound just west of 84th Ave NE there is a disabled vehicle blocking the right lane.
• On I-5 northbound at Lake City Way there is a disabled vehicle blocking the 3 right lanes.
• Update 8:07 PM : On SR 599 northbound at East Marginal Way there are several disabled vehicles blocking all lanes.
• Update 9:49 PM : On SR 520 eastbound at 92nd Ave NE there is a disabled vehicle blocking the right lane.
• Update 9:06 PM : On SR 520 westbound at I-5 there is a disabled vehicle blocking the right lane. Tow Assistance has arrived on the scene.
• Update 7:21 PM : On SR 99 southbound at SR 599 there is a collision blocking the left lane and the right lane.
• Update 5:36 PM : On I-5 southbound at S 188th St there is a disabled vehicle blocking the right lane.
• Update 7:18 PM : On I-5 southbound at NE 45th St there is a disabled vehicle blocking the right lane. The State Patrol has arrived on the scene.

When the injustice of a cruel world is more than you can bear...

First Snow of Winter 2010 - 2011

Yesterday afternoon it started snowing big flakes in the Crossroads area (yes, they look like big raindrops, but I assure you, they were big snowflakes moments before they hit the windshield of my car). Luckily all that went away and it was a dry night.
This morning I started working early when it was still dark. By the time it got light it was snowing big flakes again. The winter begins...

(P.S. I can't seem to get the top picture to print in this area...that's the one that is this morning's snow from my work area at home.)

I finished my first Kindle book

Not to mention, the first book I've finished in a long time that wasn't Doctor Who.

I just finished reading Melissa Anderson's new book called "The Way I See It".

I selected it to read because I'd already started Alison Arngrim's book "Confessions of a Prairie Bitch: How I survived Nellie Oleson and Learned to Love Being Hated" and in that book, Melissa Anderson does not come off well. I was interested in hearing Melissa's side of the story.
Melissa Anderson's book was light and easy to read quickly, so I put aside Alison Arngrim's book for the short time it took to read this one through.
I thought it sounded like the kind of book stars might have written in the old days when their squeaky clean reputation was important, or an old Tiger Beat magazine article. Melissa doesn't say anything unkind about anyone or any experience. Everything is upbeat and happy. She mentions some uncomfortable acting situations but nothing that she doesn't put a good spin on.
Which, in real life, is a blessing.
For a book though? Eh. It lacked emotion. Long passages of the book are her scene by scene descriptions of Little House episodes. The little tidbits of information she throws in are not entirely interesting. For instance, when she writes that an actor was in the episode and then tells us what other movie the actor was in. Oh. Ok.
Other sections of the book are written as if they are part of a script. That seemed wasteful and gimmicky to me
I believe this book was put together quickly to capitalize on both Melissa Gilbert and Alison Arngrim's books which also came out this year (and I purchased on Kindle).

I wanted to read the book to find out if Alison Arngrim's characterization of Melissa Anderson was the truth or not. I come away thinking it very well could be.
Melissa Anderson confirms that she wasn't great friends with Melissa Gilbert; their personalities weren't the same. As much as we, the viewing public, would like to believe they shared a special real life bond because they played sisters on television, the truth is they were coworkers. That's it.
Melissa Gilbert and Alison Arngrim were good friends, also confirmed by Melissa Anderson.
From that, I assume Alison and Melissa Anderson were coworker's. That's it.
I could absolutely believe there was much more conflict (and interesting details) than Melissa Anderson describes in her book. I can also believe that Alison Arngrim is relaying the truth of the relationship as she felt it, which could be different than Melissa Anderson meant it. Or not.
I don't think Melissa Anderson cares. She's okay with whatever people think because she's happy with her life as it is.
And that is the difference between Melissa Anderson and Melissa Gilbert/Alison Arngrim and why they don't have the special relationship we want them to have; they just don't think about things the same way.
No big deal.
And that's what I take away from the book.
Other than the fact that it cost the same as Alison Arngrim's book and Alison's book is five times meatier than Melissa Anderson's. I don't think Melissa cares - not because she's mean, It's just not where her life focus is.

Here's link to a video of Melissa promoting the book. She seems normal to me - nice, not overly interested in telling her life story, but not immune to wanting to make a few dollars.

By the way - Along with Melissa Anderson and Alison Arngrim's books, I also purchased Melissa Gilbert's book "Prairie Tale: A Memoir", so eventually I'll have completed the Little House On The Prairie trifecta.

(The Little House books were my faves when I grew up in the 1960's - hardcovers with illustrations by Garth Williams...classic. Strange to see that all these years later I'm commenting not on the Little House story, not on Laura Ingalls Wilder, not on the television show, but on the lives of the three child stars of the television show which I only watched 'cause I had read the books. Crazy.)

I'm quite taken...

Confession: I was awake in the overnight hours back in 1981 to see Prince Charles marry Lady Diana.
And...I even have a book commemorating it.
Yesterday's official announcement of the engagement of Prince William to Katherine Middleton reminds me how much fun it is to be happy for people I don't even know.

I've linked to a video of what I assume is their official engagement interview. It's reminiscent of Charles and Diana's interview - same ring, same seating position. But, based on what I heard, it's a match made by a different standard than Charles and Diana's. William seems like a well grown up man and I feel strangely proud of him for overcoming all the emotional obstacles to become comfortable and happy. I wish Katherine all the best.

Prince William was especially endearing after the 14 minute mark when he said one of the reasons they waited so long (they've been dating for about 8 years) is to give her a chance to back out because he's trying to learn from past experiences. They both wanted to mature into themselves before committing to something quite unimaginable.

I'm just so glad for this family if they've managed to come out of the drama, scandal, and tragedy of the past to be happy and fulfilled.

National Treasure - Roger Ebert

It's a wonderful gift to live in the world in which Roger Ebert writes.

"There's no flinching in the impalement arts."

I think that's a great line - I'm going to look for a reason to say it in my real life one of these days.

Bill Geist said it this morning in a CBS News Sunday Morning report on knifethrower Throwdini.

Picasso at the Seattle Art Museum

Last night I went to the Seattle Art Museum exhibit of "Picasso: Masterpieces from the Musee National Picasso, Paris" with LJ and SOLJ, an exhibit of more than 150 works of art, from paintings and sculptures to prints, drawings, and photographs.

The painting above is called La Danse Villagoise and was painted in 1923. It's an oil with pastel. I like the sturdiness of the people. I also was particularly intrigued by how the color is applied. It looks like it's sitting on top of the painting instead of within the painting. I believe a lot of the highlight color was done with pastels. The blue, red, and white looks like it's been laid on top of the grey/black/white clothes. I think the people are farm people from the village who come into town to enjoy an evening of dancing. During the week, when working on their farm, they are black and white and working. But, on the weekend, they dance and color is added to their lives. That's why the color is laid on top of the black, grey, white. In my imagination anyway!

I enjoyed what I would call the architectural cubist paintings (though I don't have a good sample at this time).

I learned that the distorted images were Picasso's way of showing ALL views of an item at the same time - each angle of an item is presented as a joined unit. Profound way of breaking out of the box - in more ways than one.

Picasso himself picked out these pieces for inclusion in the Picasso Museum as a way to create his own artistic legacy. As a result, I think, the paintings are a depiction of what Picasso was experimenting with - the developing ideas and techniques. Although some of the paintings and drawings weren't finished, Picasso saw their value because it described his journey. I thought that was quite interesting.

I don't trust Wal-Mart

Wal-Mart, Humana Offer Low-Cost Drug Plan to Take Rivals' Sales

This company gives me the creeps - they bully vendors into producing products more cheaply, they encourage the idea that money should be a consumer's only consideration when purchasing goods, they don't pay their workers very much money, they so dominate the marketplace that rural towns (where Wal-Mart began) have lost their unique character - and a lot of Mom and Pop stores.
And now they're going to sell prescription drug insurance?  That seems odd.

They hire people to work for a low wage and their vendors are forced to pay lower wages to cut costs.
Their store caters to the very same people.
They market themselves as a partner with poor people to help them save money.
But...they're the reason the people are poor in the first place!

They've created an economic class, and then cater to it to make money.
A strange cycle.

The Walton family and the WalMart Foundation may donate (to conservative think tanks among others), but the percentage they donate is very small as a percentage of their income/sales.  Less, as a percentage, than  most regular folks.

Peculiar.

P.S.  My image makes me smile.

New show I watch...

This is the one new show I've added to my Season Pass Manager on Tivo.

The FX show is called "Terriers" and stars Donal Logue and Michael Raymond-James as two unlicensed (if you have a license, you have to worry about losing it) private investigators in the San Diego, CA area.  Hank (Donal Logue) is a former cop and former alcoholic, and Britt is a former thief. 

The show has a real casual vibe, with a sense of humor.  And yet - it's serious too.  Nice balance.

It has a good heart.

The last event that happened, though, I'm not looking forward to playing out.  Blah, blah.  Secrets.

On the other hand - it was completely believable and honest...a screw up that was unexpected, but now that it happened - it makes sense.

I enjoy the show.  I hope it sticks around.

Getting frustrated...

I'm getting a little frustrated by my photography. All the features and functionality on my camera are confusing.  I am completely overwhelmed by PhotoShop Elements 8.0.
Oh well - I still want to keep trying.

Here are two photos:

This photo was taken by Kevin Fugii via this weblink at the Seattle Times
A bee on a dahlia at Bellevue Botanical Gardens:

And the following was taken by me.

A bee on a ?? at Bellevue Botanical Gardens

Inspiration

Oh! the White Balance setting DOES matter!

White Balance setting is 'cloudy'.

White Balance setting is Incandescent - Daylight.

Current Candy Obsession

These are  my current candy obsession.  When I pop one in my mouth and the chocolatey, caramelly goodness begins to melt, I'm already thinking of how good the next one will taste.
Yes, I think this says something about me - I don't know how to enjoy what I already have without thinking about wanting more.
I also eat these without awareness.  I grab three thinking it will last me a bit of time.  I reach for what I think is my second piece and all I have are three empty wrappers.
I can eat one bag in a day and it's catching up with me.
So, I'm at the end of my obsession.  I choose to practice self-discipline.
I won't buy any more.

I'll always have the memories.  Mmmm-Mmmm Good.

As a sidenote, the image above came from Candy Blog - a great site for all things candy related.

My picture, her words

"Rock bottom is the solid foundation upon which I rebuilt my life."
JK Rowling, Harvard 2008

Project Runway

I'm not clear why Gretchen is so disliked by the fans. I find her to be honest, sincere, and generous. I can see that when she won the first couple challenges she may have started to think herself invincible, but beyond that I don't know what she's done that's worthy of such ire. Although watching her backpedal during the group challenge runway critique was painful and awkward to watch. But honestly, I've been in that position before; you compromise because you want everyone to feel included, and then get excited and stand up for it because that's the right thing to do. But when you are chastised for it you realize it didn't work and you're standing there alone and nobody else will join with you. It feels like crap because you thought you were being generous and supportive of your whole team, and they let you stand there and take the crap. That's doesn't feel fair, so you let it all go and speak the truth. It looks bad, but that's how I see it went down. She could have kept her mouth shut and let people believe she was to blame or she could stand up for herself.

Why is it okay that everyone else kept their mouth shut and are not to blame?

I think Gretchen is sincere and confident and talented. I like her and am proud of her.

Mondo was the star of the episode I just watched because of his personal backstory, but more importantly because he's the designer who just won his third challenge in a row. He started out the series feeling left out and alone, and we've discovered he's one of the more charming contestants.
Valerie has always been a favorite of mine. She has a gem of a personality. Her exit tonight was filled with love and class and generosity. She's good people.